A common thought and response that runs through my head...
Maybe if I keep my mouth shut, things will be better, he'll like me more, I won't be such a bitch, and I'll be the perfect person to live with.
If I keep my mouth closed I'll turn into a doormat. My opinions will never get counted, and all of the beauty of the little things about me will never get seen.
Which is more important, which is the right thing to do? I don't believe anyone ever fully learns how to live with someone. There is no such thing as personalities that just fit like a puzzle. There are always quirks. It's just up to you to figure out if your man enough to accept those quirks as part of that person, and stop trying to change them.
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Jackie,
Now I am no expert, as I do not have the best track record on relationships, but I think you have to find a middle ground between the two choices you laid out. You must stay yourself and stand up for yourself, but you also must be willing to compromise and reach a common understanding with him on some subjects. The important thing is, you don't lose who you are in the process of doing it, something I did with my last girlfriend.
faZey
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